Three of Swords reversed is a card of recovery and renewal, even though there are times when it is painful to do so. This is the card of putting on the rose-tinted glasses once more, of seeing the truth even though it hurts, and then moving forward – of recovery. There may come a time when we have to let go of old hurts and allow ourselves to move on. In a relationship, this card can mean that the relationship is in the middle of this process of repair. The relationship has suffered a loss, but at the same time, there is also a healing that has taken place here.
When you are in a platonic relationship and you draw the Three of Swords reversed while asking how that person feels about you, the card reveals that that person is very close to you. Even after all the arguments and misunderstandings, the two of you understand and accept each other’s side. However, now that the situation is getting better, misunderstandings are also a thing. Make sure that you are not holding grudges because of the past anger while letting it go. This Minor Arcana (reversed) card indicates that you may be moving in the same direction as your partner, but you two are still far apart.
When you are single and looking for a romance, the Three of Swords reversed as feelings illustrates your sorrowful and painful situation. But this card also illustrates that you are beginning to let go of the pain of a past relationship. It is possible that you have forgiven your ex or realized that the relationship was not meant to be. This can be the best time for you to start new, as you and your ex have moved on from the past. You may have moved on from any conflicts or grievances that you may have had in the past. It is an indication that you have learned the lesson of this card, which has come to you in the reversed position, and will be more prepared to handle the next emotional or romantic upheaval in your life.
If you are at the very start of a relationship and want to know what are your lover’s feelings about you, the Three of Swords reversed as feelings reveals that your partner is currently deeply stressed and feeling sad about you. The tension and arguments between the two of you right now are causing your relationship to take a turn toward separation. You and your partner are on the wrong path and it would help if you decided to change the course of action. Don’t make any decisions right now as you are right now in a state of great instability. The conflict between you and your partner will only get worse if you make any decisions. Give time for the problems to resolve.
If you are in a relationship, the Three of Swords reversed as feelings signals a recurrence of the emotional pain brought on by the card’s upright form. You and your spouse will have a difficult time rebuilding the trust and harmony that was present in your relationship until now, as did you sacrifice it for the sake of staying together. The Three of Swords reversed suggests you let go of resentment as it would only serve to hurt you, and focus on moving on. You will need to draw on your experience to grow as a person, both emotionally and intellectually, to attract an emotionally whole, fulfilled relationship. If you cannot commit yourself to this and if you can’t let go of past, it is better to end the relationship.
If you pull the Three of Swords reversed and you are wondering, if your relationship is progressing into more serious commitment, such as marriage or engagement, the card reveals that you’ll suffer a breakup or some sort of disappointment. The reversed Three of Swords warns you to not allow your hurt to cloud your relationships because this can be dangerous. Be aware of the card’s warning and act accordingly. There is no need to overanalyse your past. Instead, think about the future and work to move past your past insecurities.
Ahead, the Three of Swords reversed might signify that it’s time for you to move on. You may feel as if you have to carry a significant amount of guilt. This is a critical moment for you to accept responsibility for your actions. If you are still carrying guilt or blame about what has happened, you are choosing the wrong path.
If you are asking what are you ex’s feelings about you, the Three of Swords reversed as feelings might signify that your ex might become close with you again. This card can indicate that you and your ex partner are healing from past resentments and have a good chance of becoming close again and even getting back together. If you have been through a break-up or painful argument, the three of Swords reversed suggests that trust is slowly returning to your relationship.