Nine of Cups reversed is a card of disappointment. The cups have been shattered, but rather than finding satisfaction in this, you may find yourself angry with those involved. You may also feel a sense of disillusionment. When a person is very happy with their life, nine of cups reversed indicates that they have unrealistic expectations. There is not enough substance behind the emotion. A better interpretation is that you are expecting too much. The Nine of Cups reversed is not a good omen since it signifies that you are going through a difficult time, like rejection, humiliation, feeling helpless, or being tricked.
The Nine of Cups reversed might indicate that you are trying to control everything and everyone else. You may have unrealistic desires, and your self-worth is heavily affected by external factors. You may have lost faith in yourself and are waiting for someone else to come along and make you happy. Despite how the outside looks, you are not actually happy or content. There is a problem with power dynamics at play when this card shows up. Nine of cups reversed is not necessarily a bad thing, but the message is one of a lack of fulfillment.
When you are in a platonic relationship and you draw the Nine of Cups reversed while asking how that person feels about you, the card reveals that this person probably feels you are only friends with them because of their wealth or social status. The person is treating you like a friend who is getting something out of it. You may also be in a relationship outside your caste as friends or as business partners. This person is not even close to sharing the same level of emotions that you are sharing with them. Their actions are not aligned with you.
You are probably in a relationship that feels like a duty and not something you really feel for. The person you are in the relationship with may be only doing it to seem like the perfect partner or a perfect match, which the card reversed also states that you are only friends with them because of their financial status.
Those who are single, with the Nine of Cups reversed as feelings you may have to face the reality that your love life is not as satisfactory as you had imagined it to be. When the Nine of Cups comes up reversed, it shows that there are things missing in your life. Something which you have considered important, but in reality, not that important.
This card is all about disappointment and emptiness when it comes to your love life. This card signals that you have not found love that has satisfied you. You are looking for someone who will be closer to you emotionally, and will be able to express themselves to you like no other. You need to trust your instincts and be closer to someone with a compatible personality.
When you are embarking on a new relationship and you want to find out what your lover feels about you, the Nine of Cups reversed as feelings illustrates your partner’s feelings for you. He/she wants the relationship to be steady and secure, but your actions often undermine their confidence. Your inner feelings and worries may cause tension in your relationship. It only leads to more anxiety because of selfish actions.
When you are in a relationship, the Nine of Cups reversed as feelings illustrates a time of disconnect. The relationship may be in a state of disarray, which makes it hard to see what is right in front of you. The relationship may instead start to feel like a struggle. Perhaps one partner feels left out and the other feels like they have to give up too much to keep the flame alive. This card may imply that the relationship is in a limbo state, where no one is sure if they should make the next move. The Nine of Cups tarot love meaning can signal that you are unsure of where you stand with your partner. You may find yourself walking on eggshells at all times, which is disconcerting. Take some time to sit down and discuss your concerns and anxieties. In the end, you must decide.
When you pull the Nine of Cups reversed and you’re asking if your relationship is heading into marriage or engagement, the card reveals that this won’t be the case. Although your partnership has reached an incredibly upbeat point in your life, there is still a lot of frustration and conflict that the two of you are putting up with. It seems as if the negativity never ends, no matter how hard you’ve tried to make your bonds stronger or to resolve any of the problems that you two are experiencing. Your partner may not want to resolve the arguments that have been going on for some time, so you should both be patient.
Even if you have been waiting for a proposal for a while, you might discover that the relationship is progressing slowly if the Nine of Cups (reversed) has been pulled. The Nine of Cups reversed is not merely a pessimistic interpretation of a relationship that is unsuccessful or a disappointment to you. It is a sign that perhaps you’re putting too much pressure on the relationship and not giving it the attention it requires. A person could even be afraid to commit to one another because they might not be ready for marriage. The Nine of Cups reversed can also represent a relationship where one partner is not ready for marriage.
When you are asking about your ex’s feelings about you, the Nine of Cups reversed as feelings illustrates that if your ex is still around, it is in a bad way—possibly because you and your ex have not been honest with one another or have been too stubborn, and your relationship has turned bitter.
Besides the feelings of your ex, the reversed Nine of Cups tarot love meaning can indicate that you are not satisfied with your current relationship, and it may be time to go in search for the life that it is you are looking for. Reversed, this Minor Arcana cards love interpretation can indicate that you and your ex partner may have fought a lot and are no longer on the same wavelength, making things unpleasant.